My employee got a workplace violence restraining order on their ex — what's my obligation?
Small business. An employee just told me her ex is named in a WVRO and might come to our office. What do I owe?
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Small business. An employee just told me her ex is named in a WVRO and might come to our office. What do I owe?
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Employment-law attorney, Atlanta — speaking generally. As the employer you can (and should) seek a WVRO on your own as employer covering the workplace and your employees during work — CA Code of Civil Procedure §527.8 is the statute. Practical steps: get a certified copy of her order, share with your security/front desk if you have one, brief the team that's most likely to be at the door, and review your safe-room / evacuation plan. Don't share the underlying facts beyond what's needed for safety planning. If the ex shows up, call 911 first, then escort the employee away from line-of-sight.
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Other things people in your situation usually need to handle. Some are paid partners; some are free community resources — labeled clearly.
National DV Hotline
Domestic violence support · Free · 24/7
1-800-799-7233 — free, confidential, 24/7 advocates for survivors of domestic violence. Multilingual. Safety-plan support and shelter referrals.
Call or chat →Open Path Collective
Affordable therapy directory · Free directory · $40–$80 / session
Nonprofit therapist network — every member commits to $40–$80 session pricing for clients in financial distress. National coverage.
Find a therapist →Swift Serve
Process server · $90–$120 typical
Same-day service on family-court papers. Flat fee, transparent pricing, certified Proof of Service delivered back.
Get a quote →Share what helped you. Be kind — and remember this is your experience, not legal advice.
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