School pickup is the worst part of my week
CAj_ramos1 month ago
Every time I see the other parent at the pickup lane my chest tightens. Anyone else?
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newleaf20261 month ago
We alternated pickup so we don't see each other at the school. We never said it was because of conflict — we just framed it as 'easier scheduling.' Months later it just feels normal.
willow_oak1 month ago
What helped me — having something specific to do right after pickup. A 10-minute walk with the kids before getting in the car. The transition got better.
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