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Did you restore your former name in the divorce?

CAdeepwater1 month ago

I'm thinking about going back to my maiden name. Was it easy to include that in the divorce paperwork?

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marisol_v1 month ago

Yes — there's a spot on the forms to ask for it. I'm glad I did it at the same time instead of as a separate case.

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