My restraining order expires in 6 months — do I have to renew it?
5-year DVRO expires in 6 months. He's been compliant. Do I renew or let it lapse?
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5-year DVRO expires in 6 months. He's been compliant. Do I renew or let it lapse?
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You don't have to prove new abuse to renew — under Ritchie v. Konrad, the standard is whether you have a reasonable apprehension of future abuse. You can renew permanently or for additional years. File DV-700 (Request to Renew) at least 30 days before expiration, ideally 90 days. Many people lose their renewal window by filing too late. If he's been fully compliant for years and you genuinely don't fear him anymore, letting it lapse is reasonable — but understand that re-applying later is harder than renewing now. The decision is personal; both choices are valid.
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