Do grandparents have visitation rights in California?
CArosa_p1 month ago
His parents want court-ordered visitation with our kids. We don't agree. Can they force it?
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CA Family Code §3104 lets grandparents petition for visitation but the bar is high — there must be a pre-existing bond such that visitation is in the child's best interest, AND the court must balance that against parental rights. If BOTH parents oppose the visitation, there's a strong presumption against it. If only one parent opposes, the analysis is more open. Most grandparent petitions where both parents object don't go far. Not advice on your case.
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